Facing the Many Faces of Violence: A Holistic Approach to Complex Work

Working with individuals exposed to violence means encountering a reality that is both deep and complex, where visible and invisible wounds coexist in a silent struggle. It is not only about addressing the direct, physical acts of violence – but also about understanding the more subtle, yet equally devastating, dimensions. Shame, guilt, fear, and power imbalances can create invisible barriers, often the biggest obstacles for someone seeking help or breaking free.

Violence seldom occurs in a vacuum. More often, it unfolds over time, with power and control exercised on multiple levels – from physical violence to psychological, emotional, and economic abuse. Emotional and psychological abuse can be particularly difficult to identify because it leaves no visible traces. Instead, it erodes an individual’s self-image, dignity, and ability to make independent decisions.

It can create a culture of silence where the individual loses their voice, and the grip of power becomes so strong that breaking free feels impossible.

For those of us who work with survivors of violence, this means developing a deep understanding of the subtle mechanisms shaping a survivor’s reality. It involves reading between the lines, recognizing how control and manipulation can manifest in the most discreet ways.

We must also consider external factors – such as financial dependence, social isolation, cultural norms, or fear of social stigma – that may make it harder for a person to break free.

One of the most important aspects of this work is creating an environment where individuals feel safe enough to open up. This requires a balance between empathy and clear, professional boundaries – where presence, attentiveness, and compassion can take center stage.

We must also understand that the path out of violence is rarely linear. It is a journey often marked by setbacks, where hope and despair alternate. Each person’s journey is unique, shaped by their experiences, traumas, and emotional wounds – requiring support that is both individually tailored and deeply human.

It is equally crucial to understand how violence affects both body and mind. Psychological suffering can manifest as physical symptoms such as:

• Cardiovascular issues – where prolonged stress impacts the heart and blood pressure.

• Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) – with anxiety, sleep disturbances, and flashbacks.

• Depression and anxiety – where feelings of hopelessness shape daily life.

• Chronic pain and fatigue – where the body reacts to long-term psychological strain.

Working with survivors of violence demands that we understand the complex web of emotional, psychological, social, and structural factors affecting each individual. It requires being present in the most vulnerable moments, facing the pain without retreating, and offering support characterized by professionalism, empathy, and respect.

There is an incredible sense of fulfillment in seeing survivors rise out of difficult situations, witnessing their strength grow, and watching them reclaim control over their lives. Being part of that journey – standing alongside someone as they regain their power, dignity, and hope for the future – is a profound reminder of why this work is so meaningful.

Working with survivors of violence requires more than technical knowledge – it demands a holistic perspective, meeting both the inner and outer realities, seeing the whole person’s life situation, and providing support on multiple levels. It is challenging work, but it is also immensely rewarding – in the form of hope, transformation, and a deep sense of truly making a difference.